
Me in 1 minute
I want better cultures on Earth — cultures more rooted in love, possibility, responsibility, and sensuality. To build these cultures, I do three main things: I steward group-living-as-initiation containers like the very eros-positive Alchemy House; I hold group trainings about empowerment and desire (e.g., Rage Club SF); and I dare to speak what I see so those around me can live their lives fully.
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I coach people to weave together two areas of growth: 1) to be more connected to their authentic impulses and desires, and 2) to be Radically Responsible – to escape traps of victimhood, disempowerment, and recurring cycles of self-sabotage.

Living out your authentic desires will be scary. A life that is driven by you always is, because there is no one else to hide behind, no “one day” to use as a snooze button. But it will be alive.

Living a Radically Responsible life means learning to source new possibilities — in any situation — that lead to extraordinary relating and living. Usually that means dropping the victimhood, even the victimhood you cannot see.
I create transformation that is durable and life-changing. See evidence of what can happen.
Click here if you are an Asian man interested in a more sensual and alive life.
What am I doing now?
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